If instead you jump to conclusions, you risk introducing anger and defensiveness, both of which are notorious for making the truth both harder to express and harder to detect.Saying you "know" someone is not cheating is also a mistake, because it, too, is a step toward closing your mind to negative information.
Years ago he told me he always looked online on dating sites, ”just to look.” I noticed that he still has an old profile on a dating site and has logged in within the past three days. Signed: Concerned Girlfriend This is a very interesting question, and it really depends on how you feel about your boyfriend.
From your question, I can tell that you two were together in the past.
There are some questions that I want you to ask yourself before you decide whether or not you say anything to your boyfriend: Spend some time and figure out why you are in this relationship, what you want out of the relationship, and how you feel about this specific situation before you talk to your boyfriend.
I want to share with you that although your question is very short, I get a sense that you do not trust your boyfriend.
There was a period during which you two broke up, and now you are back together.
It seems that you may have even gone for years without dating each other.Put it this way: I don’t go to Amazon to browse books. There IS a temptation, for both men and women, to try to continually “trade up”.But the whole point of dating – for most of us, anyway – is to find one person that makes you want to quit altogether.Since we have dated for almost two years, I asked him to cancel his online dating account. I told him it was upsetting and we had a little verbal disagreement. But your relationship does suggest a level of patience and tolerance that far exceeds the norm. Imagine a company that lets its CEO cook the books and embezzle from them because he’s a smart, charismatic guy.After another social event that I attended with girlfriends, I found that he had done the same thing again. –Barb A man who is openly defying his two-year girlfriend to stay active on Match. The shareholders would have every right to demand an ouster. I do hate to be the one to burst your bubble, Barb. Since I founded Great Boyfriends.com, I've become hyperaware; it's a HUGE problem. So yes, the poor bugger needs to be confronted, but not with one of those grim "I thought we were a couple" convos.